Curious communication is about preserving and cultivating attentiveness within a relationship. Curious communication is hard, because we have to slow down. We have to forsake results and complicate the problem for a little while. We have to stop skating on the surface and fall into the depths. We have to put down our agendas, set aside our expectations, and put our certainty in check. We have to let go of the ego within us that wants attention, and we have to settle into the soul within us that knows how to give attention.
Dr. Kelly Flanagan