Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Should I stay or should I go now?Should I stay or should I go now?If I go, there will be troubleAnd if I stay it will be double The Clash   Marriage. Humphhh. Are you feeling broken hearted in your marriage? Have you been asking yourself this question, should I stay or should I go,…

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The Importance of Time for You

Regardless of your gender, making time in your life for you is not only important it is critical. You’ve all heard the saying, “Put on your own oxygen mask first.” The reason that this is important, not only on a plane, is that you are of no use to anyone around you if you are…

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To Live Intimately with Your Life

Before we begin this journey together, you have a right to know what motivates me, why I seek to live intimately with my own life and the world. The most truthful answer to this is the simplest: because I have to. I am compelled by some deep hunger of the soul, driven by a desire…

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Intent- HOW we do something- creates Impact

Letting go of obligation has dramatic impact. Sometimes, preparing a meal when I am tired and cranky and want to argue with the assertion that popcorn is not an entrée, I catch myself grumbling, and I stop for a minute. I sit down in a chair and take a deep breath. I feel my weariness…

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Lift off!

From birth… At the core, none of us were meant to be common.We were born to be comets,Darting across space and time —Leaving our mark as we crash into everything.A crater is a reminder that something amazing happened here —An indelible impact that shook up the world.   Donovan Livingston’s 2016 Convocation speech is a…

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Coaching is about ‘Seeing Clearly’

In my first career I practiced as an Optometrist. I helped people with their sight every day for 16 years. I often joke that I got the message to work with people’s vision when I was 14, and after I took it figuratively for years, I realized that it was actually the vision of one’s life that…

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And, this is living.

This poem…. I am standing upon the seashore.  A ship at my side spreads her sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.  She is an object of beauty and strength and I watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky…

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I am; because you are. Ubuntu.

I am at an interesting chronological time in my life. There is a good chance, statistically, that I am roughly mid-way’ish in my life. My husband and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary last year, we have 3 boys that are almost 1/2 my age and becoming adults. My parents are likely entering the last couple…

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Advice from Joseph Campbell

When asked how an ordinary person could preserve his sense of the mythic {the imaginary / the dream} when most feel too besieged by the everyday claims of the bills and the mortgage, Joseph Campbell answered: You must have a place to which you can go, in your heart, your mind, or your house, almost every day,…

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Relationship before Business / Busyness

Yesterday, a dear friend and mentor of mine said something that has been lingering with me ever since. This was her comment, “There comes a time when relationships are more important than business. It’s that time.” This comment meant a lot to me in that moment, given these particular circumstances, and it continues to mean…

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