Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Should I stay or should I go now?Should I stay or should I go now?If I go, there will be troubleAnd if I stay it will be double The Clash   Marriage. Humphhh. Are you feeling broken hearted in your marriage? Have you been asking yourself this question, should I stay or should I go,…

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I am; because you are. Ubuntu.

I am at an interesting chronological time in my life. There is a good chance, statistically, that I am roughly mid-way’ish in my life. My husband and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary last year, we have 3 boys that are almost 1/2 my age and becoming adults. My parents are likely entering the last couple…

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Sharing – “Broken Things” and “Loveness”

This beautiful article just had to be shared as is…we all have this voice in us as parents and our children are here to teach us to learn to listen to it. It knows. BROKEN THINGS {from the Majestic Unicorn} October 20, 2015 by Kathleen Fleming   This was my hallway last Wednesday. Broken.  Sharp.  Treacherous.…

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Curious Communication

Curious communication is about preserving and cultivating attentiveness within a relationship. Curious communication is hard, because we have to slow down. We have to forsake results and complicate the problem for a little while. We have to stop skating on the surface and fall into the depths. We have to put down our agendas, set aside our expectations,…

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Wisdom from Making Mistakes

We make a lot of mistakes. If you ask people whom you consider to be wise and courageous about their lives, you may find that they have hurt a lot of people and made a lot of mistakes, but that they used those occasions as opportunities to humble themselves and open their hearts. We don’t…

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A new look at Work-Life Balance

“The current understanding of work-life balance is too simplistic. People find it hard to balance work with family, family with self, because it might not be a question of balance. Some other dynamic is in play, something to do with a very human attempt at happiness that does not quantify different parts of life and…

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Feeling Lost?

Not knowing what to do, we start to pay real attention. Just as people lost in the wilderness, on a cliff face or in a blizzard pay attention with a kind of acuity that they would not have if they thought they knew where they were. Why? Because for those who are really lost, their…

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The Invitation

It doesn’t interest me  what you do for a living.  I want to know  what you ache for  and if you dare to dream  of meeting your heart’s longing.  It doesn’t interest me  how old you are. I want to know  if you will risk  looking like a fool for love for your dream for…

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